Death of a Dream

Death of a dreamI like to garden and I like parsnips. Each April I sow a few rows of parsnip seeds and wait two or three weeks for them to germinate. For the last few years, I have been unlucky; most of my seeds were stored too long and had died. The waiting period between sowing and sprouting was a time of uncertainty; would the seeds grow or were they dead?

Dreams are like seeds, they remain dormant for a season. But with dreams there is no packet stating how long germination takes and when to dust off the recipe book to enjoy the harvest. Sometimes God keeps us waiting so long that it seems more like death than dormancy.

Joseph experienced the death of a dream. It died suddenly when he slumped to the bottom of a pit. His brothers had thrown him there. Joseph buried it deep as slave traders sold him to Potiphar, the captain of Pharaoh’s bodyguard, in Egypt.

Some people make the mistake of linking their whole relationship with God to the outworking of a dream. When their dream dies so does meaningful relationship with God. They are the saddest souls; they go through the motions of Christianity but with little life. Occasionally they bemoan their loss and muse about how wonderful life could have been. Joseph did not make that mistake. Evidently, he remained close to God and enjoyed blessings right there in unjust captivity.

The Lord was with Joseph, so he became a successful man. And he was in the house of his master, the Egyptian. Now his master saw that the Lord was with him and how the Lord caused all that he did to prosper in his hand. (Gen. 39:2-3)

When God allows the death of a dream He rarely provides a postmortem report. Joseph never understood what God was doing in him until later, but he is an example to us of how to live through the death of a dream.

  • Joseph learned to serve faithfully even though others reaped the blessing, not him. Potiphar prospered and his life became so easy that he only lifted his finger to eat.1 When Joseph was falsely accused of assaulting Potiphar’s wife, Joseph the prisoner responded with the same diligent service and the chief jailer benefited.2
  • By the time two other inmates had troubling dreams, God had given Joseph the ability to interpret. Joseph was confident that interpretations belonged to God and that God would reveal the meaning to him.3 When our relationship with God is the priority God is able to mature us in any situation.
  • During the dormant season, Joseph had to watch the dreams of others come to fulfillment while his own lay forgotten. Joseph remained in jail two years after the chief cupbearer’s release. That might have been his greatest test.
  • The fruit of Joseph’s waiting period was that he gained a good reputation as a manager and as an interpreter of dreams. As a result, when pharaoh himself had a dream, he summoned Joseph.4

Joseph probably had no idea at that point, but under the surface, a dream that he thought dead had begun to germinate.

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  1. Gen. 39:6 []
  2. Gen. 39:22-23 []
  3. Gen. 40:8 []
  4. Gen. 41:9-14 []

3 thoughts on “Death of a Dream

  1. Sam Hall

    Well put, John. The story of Joseph is one of my favorites in the Bible.
    I’ve posted, too. Take a look.

    1. John Avery Post author

      Thanks Sam, I appreciate your encouragement. I enjoyed writing these three pieces. Miss seeing you at the writer’s group. Hopefully life will slow down a little once the book is in a publishers hands.

  2. Marie Devine

    Joseph’s life ties in well with the question What do you do while you wait for God’s purposes for your life and ministry to unfold?

    We must be proven faithful to God to be worthy to rule and reign with Him. As Joseph we must care more about other people and minister to their needs. It will be faithfulness and a willingness to give good advice to the lowly and leaders that will lift you up into leadership. We are all called to be rulers; it is by the words we speak; if they be God’s words, we will be chosen.


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